Passion Shift

It has been said that lots of people come into our lives and not all will stay till the end because they are for just a season while some will stay forever because they are for life time.

Sadly, we wonder why we lost interest in certain organizations we joined after a period of time. Well it's because some organizations we joined are also for a season and once that season is over we find out that the initial zest we had when we joined earlier on will automatically be shredded out.

 

That's why you struggle to attend meetings and even when you do, you just can't understand why you are not enjoying the atmosphere like you used to.

As a matter of honesty; one out of two things could be the reason why you feel a passion shift as at the time you feel them.

- It may be that the organization (social, religious, political or even cultural) has stopped doing what made you join them or has digressed from it and you are no longer comfortable with the recent development.
- It may be that the organization has met the need in you that thrilled you into joining them and your need for something else has risen.

As your needs change, don't be afraid to cut ties with former organizations that may have served you well in the past but which no longer meet your current needs. Don't keep attending the same organization simply because it's familiar. Ask yourself if it still serves your need. Does the club you joined back when you were single still provide you with the kind of relationship that are appropriate for a married man?

We are created to be social beings, and belonging to groups with shared goals or similar pursuits is essential to our well-being.

Don't struggle with yourself when you find yourself going out of a particular thing, whether it's organization or even peoples life- this doesn't mean you destabilize someone's emotions. Don't blame yourself either, but there's something you must do for yourself "understand yourself and Seasons".

Understand when you should turn to the next page in a book or when to turn to the next chapter or even when to close the entire book.

Thank you!

Credit: Blessing Okpolo